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  • I don’t really think there’s anything that can be done other than policing your own and letting the platform grow.

    It’s a whole vibe thing, not just obvious stuff.

    For example, whenever there were questions aimed at women (hey ladies, what’s your hair routine? Sort of thing), it’s nothing but a bunch of men spouting off about what their wives or girlfriends do, and maybe a few actual women, but their comments always ended up buried. Nobody actually wants that “the woman in my life does this, I think…” sort of input at all, except other men (which unfortunately is the vast majority of the platform, so those “as a man” comments get heavily upvoted, even when they are obviously full of complete shit). It drowns out the few female voices that actually are around. And if you correct some dude in a post for women voices, about something men typically know nothing about, you’ll get heavily downvoted for it. Not at all welcoming.

    I know we have some strong transfem comms, and I’m all for it because all women are women, but the experience of those women is wildly different from cis women, and a lot of the memes and stuff coming from those comms are sort of… cis-excluding and often very off-putting. Which is sort of the only fem representation on here.

    It’s just not friendly for women. And so so many things need to change before it really is.


  • SolarMonkey@slrpnk.nettoFediverse@lemmy.worldI'm doing my part
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    6 days ago

    I only mention Lemmy as a caution, like what to avoid, while I’m mentioning other fediverse social media…

    Because I’m a woman and most of the people I know who want social media alternatives are also women, and I’m not subjecting them to this shitshow. I like them too much to bring them here.